I don't know about you, but when my adrenaline rushes I feel my heart start to flutter and I get this uncomfortable tingly sensation in my stomach.
As many times a day that I get that rushing feeling, I can't say that I'll ever get used to it. Nor do I want to lest I become numb to the fear that makes my heart skip beats.
I still can't figure out why people purposely put themselves in situations just to get that "rush," that adrenaline high, that extreme feeling of fear...what for? Some measly release of endorphins?
Seriously, if they want that feeling all the time, tell them to just have kids. It's a scary world out there and watching your kids move about their lives through it all sets off all kinds of parental alarms.
You can feel your body change the moment you know something is about to happen. From that first instant where you know your child is falling or about to hurt themselves, everything seems to happen in slow-motion. Your hands reach out as first instinct and your feet take off in a run in hopes to stop whatever is about to occur. Your mind begins processing at a rapid pace, and all your emotions of fear, dread, worry - pour out in a matter of seconds.
And though there may be some tears, it's not over until you heave that deep sigh of relief while you're cradling your child in your arms reminding them that all is well.
It's crazy what parenthood puts you through on a daily basis. Perhaps those thrill seekers out there have little care for their own mortality as they participate in extreme bungee skydiving with sharks (or whatever), but when it comes to someone else's life, those adrenaline rushes just aren't fun.
Reports about H1N1, planning for earthquake and fire safety, crossing the street, just take on a whole new meaning when there are others involved that depend on you...especially little ones whom you love so much it hurts.
So it is a scary world out there...but really what can you do, except spend as much time now holding your children in your arms until that fateful day when it's finally time to face your fears and let them go into the world on their own.
Oh gosh, how I dread that day.
11.03.2009
10.30.2009
Costumes 2009
Well, the costumes are finally finished...
Bear decided she wanted to be a pirate this year. She kept saying, "when I grow up, I want to be a pirate!" I kept telling her that piracy wasn't a very well looked upon profession until I realized one day she was talking about her Halloween costume, and not future occupations.
Chipmunk on the other hand we dressed up in something more suitable for his personality...Godzilla. Rawr.
If you'd like to see more of what the kids have been up to lately (Halloween costumes and all), feel free to peruse here.
Hope you're all having a wonderful end of October.
Bear decided she wanted to be a pirate this year. She kept saying, "when I grow up, I want to be a pirate!" I kept telling her that piracy wasn't a very well looked upon profession until I realized one day she was talking about her Halloween costume, and not future occupations.
Chipmunk on the other hand we dressed up in something more suitable for his personality...Godzilla. Rawr.
If you'd like to see more of what the kids have been up to lately (Halloween costumes and all), feel free to peruse here.
Hope you're all having a wonderful end of October.
10.23.2009
Bear's Confession
Earlier this week Bear and I had a long talk about telling the truth. As we were leaving for the library I noticed two things: (1) the fish tank was littered with food and there were two very fat fish swimming (thankfully still alive!) about in there, and (2) our little tank where our newfound friend, the cricket, was hanging on for dear life atop a piece of bread lest he fall into the pool of water sitting at the bottom.
After cleaning out the fish tank, drying the cricket tank and trying to settle some traumatized pets, I asked Bear what happened.
Bear: Um, Chipmunk did it.
Me: What? Really?
Bear: Uh huh. Chipmunk did it. He opened the thing on the tank and put the food in and then poured the water on the cricket.
I put the kids into the car and then made our way to the library. On the way I got to thinking. How could Chipmunk open the fish food (It's a screw top)? Where did the water in the cricket tank come from? So I asked Bear again.
Me: So what did your brother do again?
Bear: He went to the bathroom, turned on the sink...yeah, then walked slowly to the cricket and opened the top and poured the water in.
Of course, at this point I knew something was fishy (pardon the pun).
Me: So how did the food get in the fish tank?
Bear: He opened the top of the tank and poured the food in.
Me: Really?
Bear: Uh huh. He really did.
Me: Did you know that your brother doesn't know how to open the fish food?
Bear: He doesn't?
Me: No. He can't turn on the water in the bathroom either. He can't reach it.
Bear: He can't?
Me: No.
Bear sat silently for a while probably trying to figure out her next move. So I decided to give her a way out.
Me: Bear, you know if you poured the food in the fish tank and the water in the cricket tank, I'm not going to be mad at you. I however, will be very disappointed if you lied to me.
Bear: Lied?
Me: Yup. Lying is when you don't tell the truth about what really happened.
Bear: Oh.
Me: It's okay to make mistakes, but saying that someone else made the mistake is a lie.
After a bit of silence, Bear speaks up again.
Bear: Mommy?
Me: Yes?
Bear: I put too much food for the fish, and I poured the water on the cricket.
Me: Did you?
Bear: Yes, I don't want to lie.
Me: Thank you for telling me the truth.
Of course, I won't bore you with the rest of the conversation which I'm sure I repeated the "no lying" point so much Bear is sick of hearing it. I, however, will happily report that so far there have been no fish or cricket casualties much to the delight of Bear and her guilty conscience.
After cleaning out the fish tank, drying the cricket tank and trying to settle some traumatized pets, I asked Bear what happened.
Bear: Um, Chipmunk did it.
Me: What? Really?
Bear: Uh huh. Chipmunk did it. He opened the thing on the tank and put the food in and then poured the water on the cricket.
I put the kids into the car and then made our way to the library. On the way I got to thinking. How could Chipmunk open the fish food (It's a screw top)? Where did the water in the cricket tank come from? So I asked Bear again.
Me: So what did your brother do again?
Bear: He went to the bathroom, turned on the sink...yeah, then walked slowly to the cricket and opened the top and poured the water in.
Of course, at this point I knew something was fishy (pardon the pun).
Me: So how did the food get in the fish tank?
Bear: He opened the top of the tank and poured the food in.
Me: Really?
Bear: Uh huh. He really did.
Me: Did you know that your brother doesn't know how to open the fish food?
Bear: He doesn't?
Me: No. He can't turn on the water in the bathroom either. He can't reach it.
Bear: He can't?
Me: No.
Bear sat silently for a while probably trying to figure out her next move. So I decided to give her a way out.
Me: Bear, you know if you poured the food in the fish tank and the water in the cricket tank, I'm not going to be mad at you. I however, will be very disappointed if you lied to me.
Bear: Lied?
Me: Yup. Lying is when you don't tell the truth about what really happened.
Bear: Oh.
Me: It's okay to make mistakes, but saying that someone else made the mistake is a lie.
After a bit of silence, Bear speaks up again.
Bear: Mommy?
Me: Yes?
Bear: I put too much food for the fish, and I poured the water on the cricket.
Me: Did you?
Bear: Yes, I don't want to lie.
Me: Thank you for telling me the truth.
Of course, I won't bore you with the rest of the conversation which I'm sure I repeated the "no lying" point so much Bear is sick of hearing it. I, however, will happily report that so far there have been no fish or cricket casualties much to the delight of Bear and her guilty conscience.
9.23.2009
RIP Fishy
Poor Bear...she's been wandering around our home saying, "I'm still sad that Fishy is gone."
Who is Fishy? Fishy is the little silver fish that Bear won from the County Fair throwing a fortuitous ping pong ball into a bowl of colored water. You should have seen Bear's face when the little plastic tank was handed over to her...she was so proud.
These days, however, I have to explain to her why Fishy had to "go away."
I figured the fish wouldn't last long, but four days?
Well, considering the circumstances surrounding Fishy's death (found him keeled over surrounded by an excessive amount of fish flakes), let's just say Bear learned her first lesson in pet care: Being generous to your pet doesn't necessarily mean that it's a good thing.
Poor Bear. Hopefully she'll have better luck with pets later on.
Who is Fishy? Fishy is the little silver fish that Bear won from the County Fair throwing a fortuitous ping pong ball into a bowl of colored water. You should have seen Bear's face when the little plastic tank was handed over to her...she was so proud.
These days, however, I have to explain to her why Fishy had to "go away."
I figured the fish wouldn't last long, but four days?
Well, considering the circumstances surrounding Fishy's death (found him keeled over surrounded by an excessive amount of fish flakes), let's just say Bear learned her first lesson in pet care: Being generous to your pet doesn't necessarily mean that it's a good thing.
Poor Bear. Hopefully she'll have better luck with pets later on.
9.19.2009
A Fair Moment
There was a series in August that ran on The Kitchn about street fair food. As I read recipe after recipe on foods like funnel cake and frozen lemonade, it reminded me that our county fair was soon approaching.
Today we finally got to go.
Of course, some people go for the food.
As often as I tell myself that I'd like to try something new when we go to the fair, I never do. That deep-fried cheesecake on a stick will have to wait for another time. Although you can tell what the new "it" fair food is by the number of vendors selling it. These signs were everywhere:
Our kids were thrilled by anything furry.
A crew of baby goats came running when Bear came to see them. They were clamoring for her loving pats.
Anytime Chipmunk saw anything remotely animal, he'd scream and point.
There was a neat robotic dinosaur exhibit that we visited.
Chipmunk wasn't much into the display. Instead he spent his time brushing for fossils.
Other than that, Bear rode her first ferris wheel and loved it so much she wanted to go again. Chipmunk had to stick with his acrophobic mom and enjoyed amusements that were much lower to the ground like the train (or as Chipmunk likes to say "Choo Choo!").
Anyway, if you'd like to see more of how we spent our time at the fair, you can see them here.
Until the next fair moment.
Today we finally got to go.
Of course, some people go for the food.
As often as I tell myself that I'd like to try something new when we go to the fair, I never do. That deep-fried cheesecake on a stick will have to wait for another time. Although you can tell what the new "it" fair food is by the number of vendors selling it. These signs were everywhere:
Our kids were thrilled by anything furry.
A crew of baby goats came running when Bear came to see them. They were clamoring for her loving pats.
Anytime Chipmunk saw anything remotely animal, he'd scream and point.
There was a neat robotic dinosaur exhibit that we visited.
Chipmunk wasn't much into the display. Instead he spent his time brushing for fossils.
Other than that, Bear rode her first ferris wheel and loved it so much she wanted to go again. Chipmunk had to stick with his acrophobic mom and enjoyed amusements that were much lower to the ground like the train (or as Chipmunk likes to say "Choo Choo!").
Anyway, if you'd like to see more of how we spent our time at the fair, you can see them here.
Until the next fair moment.
9.15.2009
First Day of Preschool
Today was Bear's first day of preschool (sniff!).
No tears for this little social butterfly. She sauntered into her classroom and only told me one thing, "Don't forget to pick me up, okay?"
When we did pick her up, she was beaming with smiles and bursting with all kinds of stories from her day.
She mentioned painting, a story about a frog, learning a new song and playing with her new friends...which she mentioned were all boys...Really?
I guess preschool is a hit for Bear.
No tears for this little social butterfly. She sauntered into her classroom and only told me one thing, "Don't forget to pick me up, okay?"
When we did pick her up, she was beaming with smiles and bursting with all kinds of stories from her day.
She mentioned painting, a story about a frog, learning a new song and playing with her new friends...which she mentioned were all boys...Really?
I guess preschool is a hit for Bear.
9.06.2009
9.05.2009
Increasing Decibels
I've been telling myself for months now that once Chipmunk starts to "get it," things will be much better on the parenting front. I don't know why, but I imagined with Chipmunk understanding more of what's going on, parenting two kids would go smoother.
Nope. Definitely not the case.
Granted his communication has been better, but what I didn't account for was that Chipmunk and Bear would understand each other better as well. Now in most circumstances that's a good thing, but when they start playing together, they have this kind of rapport where they feed off of one another and...boom...chaos ensues.
My mom used to tell me that when all three of us (me, my sis, my bro) were together in the same room, the noise level in our home increased enormously. Something about having all of us there...we would have livelier conversations, laugh more, bicker more...the decibels would increase dramatically.
I see what she means.
I can't complain. Bear and Chipmunk play really well together, but they're crazy sometimes. They egg each other on to do things that neither of them would do on their own. If I step out of the room for a minute or two, I start to feel a sense of dread at what I might find upon returning.
They chase each other screaming at the top of their lungs. They dismantle the couch and then repeatedly jump off of it into the pile of cushions. They manage to dislodge every toy from every possible place onto the floor. They wrestle each other (Really, I've witnessed Chipmunk body slam Bear to the floor). They argue. They fight. They yell at each other and throw things around. Chaos.
Oh, and they somehow think that by acting together they can get away with things...like coloring the tiles on our kitchen floor with crayons and colored pencils, or attempting to climb up onto the dining room table to sneak snacks. Really. It's like they plan their attacks together while I'm not looking.
So it's nice that they get along so well, but goodness, I may have to invest in a pair of earplugs.
Nope. Definitely not the case.
Granted his communication has been better, but what I didn't account for was that Chipmunk and Bear would understand each other better as well. Now in most circumstances that's a good thing, but when they start playing together, they have this kind of rapport where they feed off of one another and...boom...chaos ensues.
My mom used to tell me that when all three of us (me, my sis, my bro) were together in the same room, the noise level in our home increased enormously. Something about having all of us there...we would have livelier conversations, laugh more, bicker more...the decibels would increase dramatically.
I see what she means.
I can't complain. Bear and Chipmunk play really well together, but they're crazy sometimes. They egg each other on to do things that neither of them would do on their own. If I step out of the room for a minute or two, I start to feel a sense of dread at what I might find upon returning.
They chase each other screaming at the top of their lungs. They dismantle the couch and then repeatedly jump off of it into the pile of cushions. They manage to dislodge every toy from every possible place onto the floor. They wrestle each other (Really, I've witnessed Chipmunk body slam Bear to the floor). They argue. They fight. They yell at each other and throw things around. Chaos.
Oh, and they somehow think that by acting together they can get away with things...like coloring the tiles on our kitchen floor with crayons and colored pencils, or attempting to climb up onto the dining room table to sneak snacks. Really. It's like they plan their attacks together while I'm not looking.
So it's nice that they get along so well, but goodness, I may have to invest in a pair of earplugs.
8.14.2009
Tomatoes?
Well, now that August is here, we've finally got red cherry tomatoes adorning our window.
Nice, huh? Well, they're nice when they're shot close up and then the picture is cropped.
In reality, these suckers are puny...miniscule...diminutive...itty bitty...
I could pick a half a dozen of these and they're still not even comparable to the size of a normal cherry tomato.
Oh well...at least they're cute.
Nice, huh? Well, they're nice when they're shot close up and then the picture is cropped.
In reality, these suckers are puny...miniscule...diminutive...itty bitty...
I could pick a half a dozen of these and they're still not even comparable to the size of a normal cherry tomato.
Oh well...at least they're cute.
8.02.2009
A Bit of Magic
Bear asks me a lot of "whys" these days. Why is the man going over there? Why do I have to sleep? Why are we not going to the zoo today? Why I have to wear pants? It's excessive at times, but what can I say? She's curious.
So I try my best to answer her questions as best as I can. Sometimes I find myself at a loss for words trying to explain some of the more difficult things.
One day after asking another why (Why the plants grow up and up and up? Why the clouds are hiding the sun? Why does the radio make music?), she came up with her own answer.
"I know! It's magic, right?"
I thought about it a while and didn't really correct her. If you look at it from a three and half year old perspective, most things are "magic." It's only as we get older and learn about things like cell growth, atmospheric change and radio waves that we stop seeing the "magic" in plant growth, a hiding sun, radio music or in a great many things for that matter.
Bear sees magic and miracles in all those things that seem so mundane and ordinary. Water spraying out of a fountain has no pipes or mechanisms connected to it, tomatoes turning red as they ripen have nothing to do with pigmentation and chemical change, and fun house mirrors are just fun and not a trick of bending light. To her, it's a magical world.
And so it shall be...
Yet, we get older, we learn more and we lose that appreciation and wonder of things that we can't explain. We see more heartache, we suffer through more challenges, and our days become settled in routines. The "whys" that we ask, tend to air more on the side of "why me?"
Perhaps seeing a little more "magic" in our days might be good for us...
So I try my best to answer her questions as best as I can. Sometimes I find myself at a loss for words trying to explain some of the more difficult things.
One day after asking another why (Why the plants grow up and up and up? Why the clouds are hiding the sun? Why does the radio make music?), she came up with her own answer.
"I know! It's magic, right?"
I thought about it a while and didn't really correct her. If you look at it from a three and half year old perspective, most things are "magic." It's only as we get older and learn about things like cell growth, atmospheric change and radio waves that we stop seeing the "magic" in plant growth, a hiding sun, radio music or in a great many things for that matter.
Bear sees magic and miracles in all those things that seem so mundane and ordinary. Water spraying out of a fountain has no pipes or mechanisms connected to it, tomatoes turning red as they ripen have nothing to do with pigmentation and chemical change, and fun house mirrors are just fun and not a trick of bending light. To her, it's a magical world.
And so it shall be...
Yet, we get older, we learn more and we lose that appreciation and wonder of things that we can't explain. We see more heartache, we suffer through more challenges, and our days become settled in routines. The "whys" that we ask, tend to air more on the side of "why me?"
Perhaps seeing a little more "magic" in our days might be good for us...
7.31.2009
Playing Games
So the other day we went to the market with my sister and I witnessed this...
Bear: I know! I got a good idea! Let's play a game!
Auntie: What? (Meanwhile Bear comes up behind her and hits her on the rear end)
Bear: Let's play butt tag! (Giggling and runs away)
Auntie: Bear, I don't know if I want to play this game.
Bear: Come on, Auntie! Touch my butt! Try to touch my butt!
Auntie: Who taught you this game?
Bear: I don't know. Come get me! Touch my butt!
Seriously, who taught her this game?
Bear: I know! I got a good idea! Let's play a game!
Auntie: What? (Meanwhile Bear comes up behind her and hits her on the rear end)
Bear: Let's play butt tag! (Giggling and runs away)
Auntie: Bear, I don't know if I want to play this game.
Bear: Come on, Auntie! Touch my butt! Try to touch my butt!
Auntie: Who taught you this game?
Bear: I don't know. Come get me! Touch my butt!
Seriously, who taught her this game?
7.29.2009
SD Version 2009
Some of the things we did this past weekend:
1) Visited the New Children's Museum. Chipmunk loved the bubble display (ended up rubbing bubble solution all over his tummy - too bad I forgot the camera battery - boo). Bear enjoyed the Grand Prix project where she got to make and then race a car down a ramp.
2) Went to Sea World. Chipmunk wasn't much for the shows, but Bear really enjoyed herself.
This is her screaming at the Shamu show.
Chipmunk was more at home in places where he could run around and play...
3) Had a grand ol' time at the zoo (yes, after months of Bear asking, we finally went).
Bear made sure to figure out where to find the gorillas.
She also made nice with a sabre tooth tiger.
Chipmunk enjoyed his time in the Children's portion of the zoo. He even got to pet a goat.
4) We visited our dear alma mater...although we were rather confused where it went.
Where did this building come from?
It took us a while, but we eventually found our way.
5) We finally made it back home...
...tired, but happy...
1) Visited the New Children's Museum. Chipmunk loved the bubble display (ended up rubbing bubble solution all over his tummy - too bad I forgot the camera battery - boo). Bear enjoyed the Grand Prix project where she got to make and then race a car down a ramp.
2) Went to Sea World. Chipmunk wasn't much for the shows, but Bear really enjoyed herself.
This is her screaming at the Shamu show.
Chipmunk was more at home in places where he could run around and play...
3) Had a grand ol' time at the zoo (yes, after months of Bear asking, we finally went).
Bear made sure to figure out where to find the gorillas.
She also made nice with a sabre tooth tiger.
Chipmunk enjoyed his time in the Children's portion of the zoo. He even got to pet a goat.
4) We visited our dear alma mater...although we were rather confused where it went.
Where did this building come from?
It took us a while, but we eventually found our way.
5) We finally made it back home...
...tired, but happy...
7.22.2009
7.18.2009
Ballerina Moms
Taking Bear to ballet classes has immersed me into a whole different culture that resides within the confines of dance studio lobbies. I feel like an alien in a strange land of pink tutus and shiny tap shoes, where the most common greeting is, "so which one is yours?" as the well-groomed parents look through the plexi-glass windows pointing at their pint-size progeny. It's where they talk about which ballet teacher is the best at teaching technique to three year olds and compare which child seems to have the most elaborate hair-do. They share about the other extracurricular activities their children participate in (hip hop, gymnastics, soccer, voice lessons, piano, drawing etc.) and then discuss the ramifications of what would have happened if they didn't make it into "this class.". Their cell phones are abuzz confirming play dates and they rapidly discuss with each other which children's museum has the best technologically interactive display to engage their budding geniuses.
Having little grasp of words such as "Nanny" or "Spare Moment", I stand off to the side and quietly wait (er...run after the elusive and quick to wander Chipmunk) while the other ballerina moms "ooh" and "aah" at their children stumbling through grand jeté and échappé sauté. Then as the clock strikes 10:40, we rush in to change our dear daughter's shoes so another 20 minutes of shuffle hops and taps can proceed. And the moms watch with stars in their eyes imagining futures of standing ovations and encores, delighted at their child's interest in art and culture.
Then the teacher dismisses and all the girls run out of the dance room prim and proper, hairstyles intact, with beaming smiles on their faces. Their mothers pick up their brand name tote bags and receive them with open arms and bottles of water and ask them how their ballet class went while escorting them towards their minivans headed for the next enlightening destination.
Meanwhile, Bear runs out of the studio, with her ponytail falling out, secondhand leotard, a ruffled Sonja in one arm and a freshly printed ladybug stamp on the other and proudly announces, "I love ballet class!" I in turn respond, "I'm glad you had a good time."
Having little grasp of words such as "Nanny" or "Spare Moment", I stand off to the side and quietly wait (er...run after the elusive and quick to wander Chipmunk) while the other ballerina moms "ooh" and "aah" at their children stumbling through grand jeté and échappé sauté. Then as the clock strikes 10:40, we rush in to change our dear daughter's shoes so another 20 minutes of shuffle hops and taps can proceed. And the moms watch with stars in their eyes imagining futures of standing ovations and encores, delighted at their child's interest in art and culture.
Then the teacher dismisses and all the girls run out of the dance room prim and proper, hairstyles intact, with beaming smiles on their faces. Their mothers pick up their brand name tote bags and receive them with open arms and bottles of water and ask them how their ballet class went while escorting them towards their minivans headed for the next enlightening destination.
Meanwhile, Bear runs out of the studio, with her ponytail falling out, secondhand leotard, a ruffled Sonja in one arm and a freshly printed ladybug stamp on the other and proudly announces, "I love ballet class!" I in turn respond, "I'm glad you had a good time."
7.10.2009
Summer continues
Bear's tomatoes are finally starting to grow. Granted they're only the size of marbles at the moment, but they're there and she's excited.
I wish I could remember when I was three years old and simple things like plant growth were the highlights of my week.
Ballet has also begun. About 2 months ago she ran up to me and asked, "Can I go to ballet classes?" Matt and I figured why not and signed her up. The only problem being that for the past 2 months she has been asking, "I go to ballet class tomorrow?" She has also been asking, "Can we go to the zoo tomorrow?" and "Can I buy shiny shoes?"
She loved loved loved her first ballet class. Although I did have to have a little talk with her afterwards. After her class, one of the other moms told me, "Your daughter is a natural born leader. She's the smallest one there, but she made sure all the other girls were doing what they were supposed to." Of course, that was the nice way of saying that our little girl is "bossy." I watched her spend her whole first hour in dance class pointing and telling the other girls what to do.
But besides her natural leadership skills, she's been happily practicing her spins and her shuffles (yup, she's learning tap, too!) all over the house.
Fourth of July we spent with some good friends, barbecue and 7-layer dip. It was a nice relaxing Saturday. Of course, Chipmunk wasn't too happy after a while and made sure that everyone knew. Lately he's been showing a lot of frustration at not being able to do what everyone else can do. He even does this little temper tantrum thing where he lies on the floor and kicks his legs. Of course, I don't really think it has the intended effect he's looking for. Most people watch him throw his little fit and say, "Oh, that's so cute!" and then just let him continue with his toddler rant. Poor kid.
Now off for some more summer fun...
7.01.2009
New Quirks
Chipmunk is growing up faster than we can blink. He looking less like a baby and more and more like a child.
He's also picking up interesting quirks here and there. My recent favorite quirk of his is his "faux-thinking" pose. He stands, pokes his finger into his cheek and says, "ummmmm," like he's pondering what to tackle next.
Heh heh. I'm still trying to figure out what he's actually deciding while striking this pose.
His other recent quirk that I've been enjoying is his love of exploring the outdoors. Living in a rather urban area, he doesn't get much of a chance to wander and explore nature. The last time I let him "explore" he picked up a piece of dog poop (yuck!). Last week we were in more wooded areas during our trip, so he took it upon himself to take nature walks whenever he could (Meaning: as soon as the front door opened he ran out and down the block). So instead of reining him in, I let him wander. He picked up rocks and held onto them. He stomped on leaves, followed bugs, swatted at bushes and pointed to trees yelling, "Teeeeee!" He stared down a dog, picked up sticks, and made sure to play with each patch of dirt. I showed him a ladybug which he found fascinating and he even attempted to follow a flightless bee.
I imagine that he'll be my mud pie making kid who brings bugs and worms home as pets. Bear, on the other hand, will always be the girly-girl with her shoes, purses, skirts and dresses and abundance of anything pink and fluffy...
He's also picking up interesting quirks here and there. My recent favorite quirk of his is his "faux-thinking" pose. He stands, pokes his finger into his cheek and says, "ummmmm," like he's pondering what to tackle next.
Heh heh. I'm still trying to figure out what he's actually deciding while striking this pose.
His other recent quirk that I've been enjoying is his love of exploring the outdoors. Living in a rather urban area, he doesn't get much of a chance to wander and explore nature. The last time I let him "explore" he picked up a piece of dog poop (yuck!). Last week we were in more wooded areas during our trip, so he took it upon himself to take nature walks whenever he could (Meaning: as soon as the front door opened he ran out and down the block). So instead of reining him in, I let him wander. He picked up rocks and held onto them. He stomped on leaves, followed bugs, swatted at bushes and pointed to trees yelling, "Teeeeee!" He stared down a dog, picked up sticks, and made sure to play with each patch of dirt. I showed him a ladybug which he found fascinating and he even attempted to follow a flightless bee.
I imagine that he'll be my mud pie making kid who brings bugs and worms home as pets. Bear, on the other hand, will always be the girly-girl with her shoes, purses, skirts and dresses and abundance of anything pink and fluffy...
6.30.2009
Summer Once Again
Here's a list of some things we've been up to in the past week:
1. Swimming - Okay, one kid was swimming. The other was running from the pool screaming in fear. Granted it was his first time in/near the water, but our home video is mostly of Chipmunk crying out of utter fear of the water. Poor kid.
2. Staying out of the heat - Hundred degree weather is not fun. We've also discovered that Chipmunk is going to be one of those "sweaty little boys." You know, the ones who run a little bit and end up with pink cheeks and a wet head?
3. Visiting parks and mini-amusement parks - We tried the park but it was just too hot after a while despite the area being a highly wooded area. We ended up at a mini-amusement park where Bear was running around asking, "Can I ride this one, Daddy?" Meanwhile Chipmunk freaked out while riding a merry-go-round pony. So no on water and carousel horses for him.
4. Visiting family - We visited almost all the grandparents this past week. That's no small feat. We missed one, but that would have involved passports and international travel.
5. A movie in a theater - Very exciting. Matt and I haven't seen a movie together in a while. It's been so long we couldn't come to a consensus on what the last movie we saw happened to be.
6. Berry picking - Wild berries grow in abundance in my grandmother's backyard. We took the kids out back and helped them pick some berries of their very own. Surprisingly sweet. Of course, before we set out I made sure to study up some photos of poison ivy...just in case. That apparently grows wild in the backyard, too.
7. Wedding - We were very happy that we could also attend a wedding during the week (Congrats to M & H!). It was nice to be sans kids again (I know! Twice in one week! Amazing.) And it was a joy witnessing our friends tie the knot...
Ah, it is summer once again...
1. Swimming - Okay, one kid was swimming. The other was running from the pool screaming in fear. Granted it was his first time in/near the water, but our home video is mostly of Chipmunk crying out of utter fear of the water. Poor kid.
2. Staying out of the heat - Hundred degree weather is not fun. We've also discovered that Chipmunk is going to be one of those "sweaty little boys." You know, the ones who run a little bit and end up with pink cheeks and a wet head?
3. Visiting parks and mini-amusement parks - We tried the park but it was just too hot after a while despite the area being a highly wooded area. We ended up at a mini-amusement park where Bear was running around asking, "Can I ride this one, Daddy?" Meanwhile Chipmunk freaked out while riding a merry-go-round pony. So no on water and carousel horses for him.
4. Visiting family - We visited almost all the grandparents this past week. That's no small feat. We missed one, but that would have involved passports and international travel.
5. A movie in a theater - Very exciting. Matt and I haven't seen a movie together in a while. It's been so long we couldn't come to a consensus on what the last movie we saw happened to be.
6. Berry picking - Wild berries grow in abundance in my grandmother's backyard. We took the kids out back and helped them pick some berries of their very own. Surprisingly sweet. Of course, before we set out I made sure to study up some photos of poison ivy...just in case. That apparently grows wild in the backyard, too.
7. Wedding - We were very happy that we could also attend a wedding during the week (Congrats to M & H!). It was nice to be sans kids again (I know! Twice in one week! Amazing.) And it was a joy witnessing our friends tie the knot...
Ah, it is summer once again...
6.15.2009
6.05.2009
Pea Harvest
Everyday Bear waters her little garden. She inspects her plants, excitedly points out each flower and pea, and asks repeatedly when she can eat them.
Well, the day arrived. When I told her that it was time to pick some peas she ran to the window so quickly she practically pushed me over. She repeatedly asked if she could pick them herself. Chipmunk stood in the back complaining hoping to join the fun himself. So the four of us (dad was home, too) picked a handful of peas and then I washed a couple and gave them to the kids to eat. The rest I steamed and added to a salad for our dinner.
So now Bear has taken if upon herself to alert whenever she thinks any pea is mature enough for the picking. She then insists on pulling the stem off and eating them before I get a chance to cook them.
I'm glad she's excited about it all. She should be, this is her garden and she is now able to reap the benefits.
Well, the day arrived. When I told her that it was time to pick some peas she ran to the window so quickly she practically pushed me over. She repeatedly asked if she could pick them herself. Chipmunk stood in the back complaining hoping to join the fun himself. So the four of us (dad was home, too) picked a handful of peas and then I washed a couple and gave them to the kids to eat. The rest I steamed and added to a salad for our dinner.
So now Bear has taken if upon herself to alert whenever she thinks any pea is mature enough for the picking. She then insists on pulling the stem off and eating them before I get a chance to cook them.
I'm glad she's excited about it all. She should be, this is her garden and she is now able to reap the benefits.
Passing Thoughts
I read that Ronald Takaki passed away last week. Many people remember his culturally defining teachings and writings on race and ethnicity. I remember him as the author I first read that quoted my grandfather's work. I remember sitting in my dorm reading Strangers from a Different Shore: A History of Asian Americans for my beginning Ethnic Studies course and coming across my grandfather's name briefly here and there. It made me feel proud of my grandfather and his works. So reading about Ronald Takaki this week just made me reminisce about my grandfather.
I mentioned to my grandfather once that I saw his works quoted in my textbooks and he just responded with a smile. For being an author himself, my grandpa was a quiet man. I didn't know much about his life until after he passed in 2005. To us, he was the man who took us on walks around the neighborhood, counting the steps down to the park and back. He would clasp his fingers together and make us count his fingers to make sure they were all there. He had this little laugh that I still remember usually when he was setting us up for a joke, and he would always slip us money when grandma wasn't looking.
At his memorial service there were all sorts of people there who called themselves either his colleagues or his pupils. As they shared, it opened up this whole side of my grandpa that I just didn't realize was there. He was called a mentor, a teacher, a distinguished scholar, a man who went through political pressure, a man who wrote about his beliefs even when others didn't agree. Later reading biographical articles about him in books and periodicals, I couldn't believe how little I knew of his difficult yet distinguished life.
Yet, history tells us that we can be who we are because of the way our predecessor's fought to preserve rights and humanity in this country. I will never really understand how hard it was for them to claim their stake in the American dream when racial prejudices and cultural misunderstandings beat them down at every turn. Even now, yes, prejudices occur, but it is nothing (not even close) to what our grandparents and great-grandparents had to put up with in order to get to the place we are now.
So for those writers/professors/cultural forerunners of change like my grandfather and Ronald Takaki, I'm thankful for the path that they started paving long ago for understanding and acceptance. It's something I take for granted far too often in my charmed American life.
I mentioned to my grandfather once that I saw his works quoted in my textbooks and he just responded with a smile. For being an author himself, my grandpa was a quiet man. I didn't know much about his life until after he passed in 2005. To us, he was the man who took us on walks around the neighborhood, counting the steps down to the park and back. He would clasp his fingers together and make us count his fingers to make sure they were all there. He had this little laugh that I still remember usually when he was setting us up for a joke, and he would always slip us money when grandma wasn't looking.
At his memorial service there were all sorts of people there who called themselves either his colleagues or his pupils. As they shared, it opened up this whole side of my grandpa that I just didn't realize was there. He was called a mentor, a teacher, a distinguished scholar, a man who went through political pressure, a man who wrote about his beliefs even when others didn't agree. Later reading biographical articles about him in books and periodicals, I couldn't believe how little I knew of his difficult yet distinguished life.
Yet, history tells us that we can be who we are because of the way our predecessor's fought to preserve rights and humanity in this country. I will never really understand how hard it was for them to claim their stake in the American dream when racial prejudices and cultural misunderstandings beat them down at every turn. Even now, yes, prejudices occur, but it is nothing (not even close) to what our grandparents and great-grandparents had to put up with in order to get to the place we are now.
So for those writers/professors/cultural forerunners of change like my grandfather and Ronald Takaki, I'm thankful for the path that they started paving long ago for understanding and acceptance. It's something I take for granted far too often in my charmed American life.
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