Having Bear around is like a game of twenty questions, except there's no final answer and the questions just keep on coming.
Mommy, why do people get sick?Lately Bear has been asking a lot of questions that I'm not quite sure how to answer without getting too deeply philosophical, theological or ontological.
Do ambulances help a lot of people in trouble? Some questions I can answer, but she always follows up with a stumper.
Why do people die when they get hurt a lot?You know that feeling when you're trying to come up with a reasonable answer and your mouth is hanging open and you're hoping that the right words will come out on their own? Yeah, that's me...except the only word that comes out is, "um."
What happens when we die?There's also the moments where you feel like you're in over your head and the best course of action would be to just give a cop out answer even if it means fibbing a bit.
How do babies get in mommies' tummies?Of course, does knowing that you fibbed to your child make you feel better in the long run, or would it be better to answer truthfully and risk the consequence of confusing your child or better yet, having more unanswerable questions shot back at you?
Why do people do mean things?And you wish you could just maintain their childlike ignorance and shield your little ones from knowing about the dark side of humanity...you know, those things we read about in the news and feel a deep pit of ick in our stomachs while we read about it.
Why do I do mean things sometimes?And you wish you could protect your dear ones from sadness and pain and ever having to feel regret or shame.
Mommy?Yes, my darling little girl?
How much do you love me?Now, there's a question I
can answer. I love you more than I can express in words...much more.