7.29.2009

SD Version 2009

Some of the things we did this past weekend:

1) Visited the New Children's Museum. Chipmunk loved the bubble display (ended up rubbing bubble solution all over his tummy - too bad I forgot the camera battery - boo). Bear enjoyed the Grand Prix project where she got to make and then race a car down a ramp.

2) Went to Sea World. Chipmunk wasn't much for the shows, but Bear really enjoyed herself.

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This is her screaming at the Shamu show.

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Chipmunk was more at home in places where he could run around and play...

3) Had a grand ol' time at the zoo (yes, after months of Bear asking, we finally went).

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Bear made sure to figure out where to find the gorillas.

Bear the Sabre Tooth Tiger Tamer

She also made nice with a sabre tooth tiger.

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Chipmunk enjoyed his time in the Children's portion of the zoo. He even got to pet a goat.

4) We visited our dear alma mater...although we were rather confused where it went.

Price Center?

Where did this building come from?

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It took us a while, but we eventually found our way.

Bear and the silent tree

Chipmunk in front of Geisel library

5) We finally made it back home...

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...tired, but happy...

7.22.2009

Ballerina Bear

For those of you who would like to see Bear in action...

7.18.2009

Ballerina Moms

Taking Bear to ballet classes has immersed me into a whole different culture that resides within the confines of dance studio lobbies. I feel like an alien in a strange land of pink tutus and shiny tap shoes, where the most common greeting is, "so which one is yours?" as the well-groomed parents look through the plexi-glass windows pointing at their pint-size progeny. It's where they talk about which ballet teacher is the best at teaching technique to three year olds and compare which child seems to have the most elaborate hair-do. They share about the other extracurricular activities their children participate in (hip hop, gymnastics, soccer, voice lessons, piano, drawing etc.) and then discuss the ramifications of what would have happened if they didn't make it into "this class.". Their cell phones are abuzz confirming play dates and they rapidly discuss with each other which children's museum has the best technologically interactive display to engage their budding geniuses.

Having little grasp of words such as "Nanny" or "Spare Moment", I stand off to the side and quietly wait (er...run after the elusive and quick to wander Chipmunk) while the other ballerina moms "ooh" and "aah" at their children stumbling through grand jeté and échappé sauté. Then as the clock strikes 10:40, we rush in to change our dear daughter's shoes so another 20 minutes of shuffle hops and taps can proceed. And the moms watch with stars in their eyes imagining futures of standing ovations and encores, delighted at their child's interest in art and culture.

Then the teacher dismisses and all the girls run out of the dance room prim and proper, hairstyles intact, with beaming smiles on their faces. Their mothers pick up their brand name tote bags and receive them with open arms and bottles of water and ask them how their ballet class went while escorting them towards their minivans headed for the next enlightening destination.

Meanwhile, Bear runs out of the studio, with her ponytail falling out, secondhand leotard, a ruffled Sonja in one arm and a freshly printed ladybug stamp on the other and proudly announces, "I love ballet class!" I in turn respond, "I'm glad you had a good time."

7.10.2009

Summer continues

Tomatoes on the vine

Bear's tomatoes are finally starting to grow. Granted they're only the size of marbles at the moment, but they're there and she's excited.

I wish I could remember when I was three years old and simple things like plant growth were the highlights of my week.

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Ballet has also begun. About 2 months ago she ran up to me and asked, "Can I go to ballet classes?" Matt and I figured why not and signed her up. The only problem being that for the past 2 months she has been asking, "I go to ballet class tomorrow?" She has also been asking, "Can we go to the zoo tomorrow?" and "Can I buy shiny shoes?"

She loved loved loved her first ballet class. Although I did have to have a little talk with her afterwards. After her class, one of the other moms told me, "Your daughter is a natural born leader. She's the smallest one there, but she made sure all the other girls were doing what they were supposed to." Of course, that was the nice way of saying that our little girl is "bossy." I watched her spend her whole first hour in dance class pointing and telling the other girls what to do.

But besides her natural leadership skills, she's been happily practicing her spins and her shuffles (yup, she's learning tap, too!) all over the house.

Peek-a-boo

Fourth of July we spent with some good friends, barbecue and 7-layer dip. It was a nice relaxing Saturday. Of course, Chipmunk wasn't too happy after a while and made sure that everyone knew. Lately he's been showing a lot of frustration at not being able to do what everyone else can do. He even does this little temper tantrum thing where he lies on the floor and kicks his legs. Of course, I don't really think it has the intended effect he's looking for. Most people watch him throw his little fit and say, "Oh, that's so cute!" and then just let him continue with his toddler rant. Poor kid.

Now off for some more summer fun...

7.01.2009

New Quirks

Chipmunk is growing up faster than we can blink. He looking less like a baby and more and more like a child.

He's also picking up interesting quirks here and there. My recent favorite quirk of his is his "faux-thinking" pose. He stands, pokes his finger into his cheek and says, "ummmmm," like he's pondering what to tackle next.

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Heh heh. I'm still trying to figure out what he's actually deciding while striking this pose.

His other recent quirk that I've been enjoying is his love of exploring the outdoors. Living in a rather urban area, he doesn't get much of a chance to wander and explore nature. The last time I let him "explore" he picked up a piece of dog poop (yuck!). Last week we were in more wooded areas during our trip, so he took it upon himself to take nature walks whenever he could (Meaning: as soon as the front door opened he ran out and down the block). So instead of reining him in, I let him wander. He picked up rocks and held onto them. He stomped on leaves, followed bugs, swatted at bushes and pointed to trees yelling, "Teeeeee!" He stared down a dog, picked up sticks, and made sure to play with each patch of dirt. I showed him a ladybug which he found fascinating and he even attempted to follow a flightless bee.

I imagine that he'll be my mud pie making kid who brings bugs and worms home as pets. Bear, on the other hand, will always be the girly-girl with her shoes, purses, skirts and dresses and abundance of anything pink and fluffy...

6.30.2009

Summer Once Again

Here's a list of some things we've been up to in the past week:

1. Swimming - Okay, one kid was swimming. The other was running from the pool screaming in fear. Granted it was his first time in/near the water, but our home video is mostly of Chipmunk crying out of utter fear of the water. Poor kid.

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2. Staying out of the heat - Hundred degree weather is not fun. We've also discovered that Chipmunk is going to be one of those "sweaty little boys." You know, the ones who run a little bit and end up with pink cheeks and a wet head?

3. Visiting parks and mini-amusement parks - We tried the park but it was just too hot after a while despite the area being a highly wooded area. We ended up at a mini-amusement park where Bear was running around asking, "Can I ride this one, Daddy?" Meanwhile Chipmunk freaked out while riding a merry-go-round pony. So no on water and carousel horses for him.

4. Visiting family - We visited almost all the grandparents this past week. That's no small feat. We missed one, but that would have involved passports and international travel.

5. A movie in a theater - Very exciting. Matt and I haven't seen a movie together in a while. It's been so long we couldn't come to a consensus on what the last movie we saw happened to be.

6. Berry picking - Wild berries grow in abundance in my grandmother's backyard. We took the kids out back and helped them pick some berries of their very own. Surprisingly sweet. Of course, before we set out I made sure to study up some photos of poison ivy...just in case. That apparently grows wild in the backyard, too.

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7. Wedding - We were very happy that we could also attend a wedding during the week (Congrats to M & H!). It was nice to be sans kids again (I know! Twice in one week! Amazing.) And it was a joy witnessing our friends tie the knot...

Ah, it is summer once again...

6.05.2009

Pea Harvest

Everyday Bear waters her little garden. She inspects her plants, excitedly points out each flower and pea, and asks repeatedly when she can eat them.

Well, the day arrived. When I told her that it was time to pick some peas she ran to the window so quickly she practically pushed me over. She repeatedly asked if she could pick them herself. Chipmunk stood in the back complaining hoping to join the fun himself. So the four of us (dad was home, too) picked a handful of peas and then I washed a couple and gave them to the kids to eat. The rest I steamed and added to a salad for our dinner.

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So now Bear has taken if upon herself to alert whenever she thinks any pea is mature enough for the picking. She then insists on pulling the stem off and eating them before I get a chance to cook them.

I'm glad she's excited about it all. She should be, this is her garden and she is now able to reap the benefits.

Passing Thoughts

I read that Ronald Takaki passed away last week. Many people remember his culturally defining teachings and writings on race and ethnicity. I remember him as the author I first read that quoted my grandfather's work. I remember sitting in my dorm reading Strangers from a Different Shore: A History of Asian Americans for my beginning Ethnic Studies course and coming across my grandfather's name briefly here and there. It made me feel proud of my grandfather and his works. So reading about Ronald Takaki this week just made me reminisce about my grandfather.

I mentioned to my grandfather once that I saw his works quoted in my textbooks and he just responded with a smile. For being an author himself, my grandpa was a quiet man. I didn't know much about his life until after he passed in 2005. To us, he was the man who took us on walks around the neighborhood, counting the steps down to the park and back. He would clasp his fingers together and make us count his fingers to make sure they were all there. He had this little laugh that I still remember usually when he was setting us up for a joke, and he would always slip us money when grandma wasn't looking.

At his memorial service there were all sorts of people there who called themselves either his colleagues or his pupils. As they shared, it opened up this whole side of my grandpa that I just didn't realize was there. He was called a mentor, a teacher, a distinguished scholar, a man who went through political pressure, a man who wrote about his beliefs even when others didn't agree. Later reading biographical articles about him in books and periodicals, I couldn't believe how little I knew of his difficult yet distinguished life.

Yet, history tells us that we can be who we are because of the way our predecessor's fought to preserve rights and humanity in this country. I will never really understand how hard it was for them to claim their stake in the American dream when racial prejudices and cultural misunderstandings beat them down at every turn. Even now, yes, prejudices occur, but it is nothing (not even close) to what our grandparents and great-grandparents had to put up with in order to get to the place we are now.

So for those writers/professors/cultural forerunners of change like my grandfather and Ronald Takaki, I'm thankful for the path that they started paving long ago for understanding and acceptance. It's something I take for granted far too often in my charmed American life.

5.25.2009

Window Garden

One day, if and when we ever get our own home, I'd love to have a garden. Doesn't matter, small or large, but I'd love to be able to have a space that has a little bit of greenery. Our current living situation doesn't really have much outdoor space for a garden of any kind, but in the interest of educating Bear about seeds and their growing needs, we set up a little window garden. Well, it started small, just a couple of seeds and pots, some sunshine in the window, a spray bottle for Bear to water...

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We just didn't account for the green thumb. Seriously, they're taking over the window. Okay, so part of it is probably the fact that there's not enough sunshine so the plants are growing in search of it (Gibberellins, right?). Despite the overabundance of leafage and stemmage, our little Mendel is starting to see her pea plants flower and fruit. Every day she inspects her plants and excitedly exclaims, "Look, mommy, it's growing!"

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So perhaps in a couple of weeks I'll get to teach her about harvesting and then sautéing. Yum.

4.30.2009

No Vegetables, Please!

Our son is not a big fan of vegetables. He'll eat them only if there is nothing else available. He's definitely a meat and potatoes kind of boy.

Although we found out that he's not a big fan of cartoon vegetables either. On our car ride home on Monday we popped in some Veggie Tales and he started to pout. After a few minutes he had a look of terror as he watched those dancing and singing vegetables. A couple minutes after that he started to bawl.

So we tried again today to see if it was just a fluke.

Look of Terror

Nope. Apparently he's not a fan of veggies in any form.

4.29.2009

Some Fun...

Our weekend was more of a whirlwind rather than a trip due to its brevity, but we managed to squeeze in a little fun for the kids...Here are just a few pics of the fun...

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4.28.2009

Eighty Years

In college, my friends and I used to joke about what we'd be like when we were out of college. We pondered what life would be like in the work force, whether we would plan to marry, or even have children. Yet, now that we've come to this point in our lives a decade or so from where we once were, it's hard to recall what we were like back then, living in the dorms, hanging out on campus, studying at coffee shops...

So this past weekend as we celebrated my grandmother's eightieth birthday, I pondered what it would be like looking back after eighty years. It seems so far away from me now, but one day, God willing, I'll be there trying to remember how I spent my previous eighty years...Watching my grandma blow out her candles and celebrate with her nearest and dearest, I had to wonder what kinds of memories stood out most for her...what life events seemed to shine brightest for her in her eighty years on our planet earth...

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Here's to eighty more years, Grandma!

4.21.2009

"Tippy Steps" song

Today in the car Bear announced that she was going to teach me a song. She said that it was called the "Tippy Steps Song." She then sang a random song about being in a car and dancing on tippy steps (which I'm guessing is her way of saying "tippy toes") and something about Chipmunk throwing his toys on the ground. It was her first original song. I'm so proud.

4.18.2009

Nicknames

I have been known to refer to my daughter as a troublemaker. After Chipmunk was born he became the new troublemaker. Every now and again I'll actually call him by the name "Troublemaker." Today, after I spent a couple hours at a birthday party running after his wiggly little self, I was pooped. Matt asked me how the party was and I told "It was fun, but boy is your son a little troublemaker." Bear overheard and promptly said:

"Baby not a troublemaker. I da troublemaker! Baby is Grumpy-maker!"

Grumpy-maker, huh? Actually, it's kind of fitting.

4.14.2009

How I Spend My Days (by Chipmunk)

Ever wanted to know how I, a 14 month old, get through the day?

First things first. I eat. And boy do I eat. Here are the remnants of my breakfast: a whole banana and a bowl of cheerios (which I followed soon after with a cup of yogurt and a couple mandarin oranges).

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Then I get down to business. Kitchen first. I make sure to take all the magnets off the fridge and all the pots and pans out of the cupboards.

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Next, I target my sibling. I always go for the toys she's playing with. It's just more fun that way.

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Then, I work on my climbing skills. I aim to raise the bar each day climbing to newer and higher heights. Here I managed to climb Mt. Desk.

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"What? I'm not supposed to be climbing here?" (See I'm feigning innocence...another skill you must practice on a daily basis)

Mischief. Ah yes, another "must" in my day. Here I am pouring Goldfish crackers into the exersaucer. I don't know about you, but for me crackers just aren't right unless they're spilled all over the place. Same goes for cheerios, raisins, cheese, and well, any food actually.

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More Mischief. Any of the following tasks work best if repeated multiple times throughout the day:
1. Pulling my sister's hair
2. Emptying laundry baskets and clothes drawers
3. Dropping food into hard to reach places
4. Getting into the toilet (listening to my mom freak out!)
5. Body slamming my teddy bear
6. Finding the telephone and calling random phone numbers
7. Throwing my toys into the shiny bin my mom calls the trash can
8. Practicing my awesome Rock Band skills on the pots and pans

After knocking a few of these tasks off my to-do list, my mom usually tries to hinder my work by turning on the mind-control device (television), hypnotizing me into a passive state.

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I can usually break free from it's evil paralyzing ways after about 5 minutes, where I make sure to make-up for the loss of time by doubling my efforts.

And that, my friends, is how I spend my day.

4.12.2009

Shiner

Our little Bear had a little accident at church this morning...

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She had a close encounter with a file cabinet after a bout of spinning. Bonk! She immediately started bruising around her eye and wasn't too happy for a while...

She seems better now...although perhaps a little more wary of spinning.

3.30.2009

Walking

"So is he walking yet?"

We've been getting asked that question since Chipmunk was 9 or 10 months old. I guess if a baby starts to crawl and cruise early, walking seems like the next logical step. Apparently, it's not so.

His first birthday passed and still he insisted on crawling and being carried.

"He's still not walking yet?"

We weren't worried. We figured that the later he walked the better for us.

"Oh, he's cruising...he'll be walking any day now!"

Well, he's been cruising since 8 months old...he's been cruising for almost 6 months now.

So Matt and I joked that Chipmunk probably already knew how to walk, he was just choosing not to. That's also the joke we told everyone who questioned us about why he wasn't yet walking.

Apparently we weren't that off...

This morning he woke up, played a while, ate breakfast, played some more and then around 11 o clock he decided that it was time to move on. Not just one or two steps, but full on walking from one room to another without any assistance. It's like something just went off in his head and today was the day he would become a walker...

Perhaps tomorrow he will decide to run...

3.22.2009

Korean food

Driving home from dinner tonight...

Matt: I'm going to have to get a night job or something.

Me: What? Why?

Matt: Have you seen the way our kids eat?

We just spent the hour before gaping at our children as they inhaled bowls of soon du bu, bulgogi, rice, and broiled fish.

I learned that if I want to actually eat some, I need to order two rather than one to share. Bear practically ate a whole stone pot of tofu goodness on her own. Chipmunk? He almost seemed chubbier after dinner if that's possible.

I'm just glad they like Korean food. Bring on the kimchi.



Bear's leftovers: an empty pot, empty bowl and fish bones.

Unconcerned

Bear is usually like a "little momma" to her brother, so sometimes when Chipmunk is out of my sight, I will ask Bear to report on his current condition. This morning as I was cleaning up I asked for a status update.

Me: Hey, Bear! What is your brother doing?

Bear: (nonchalantly)Um...nothing. He's just choking.

Me: What?!

[Don't worry...he wasn't really choking...like as in heimlich-maneuver-choking...more like, shoved too much food in mouth and coughed]

3.20.2009

Sometimes the best thing to say...

...is not to say anything at all.

I realize that writing any of my thoughts at the present time would probably result in a "whine" fest. Therefore, I'm going to just end it here...

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Hope you all have a great weekend!

3.15.2009

Breakfast (by Chipmunk)

Breakfast

Today, mommy let me eat breakfast on my own. She let me use a spoon and everything. I only got a little bit messy...hee hee.

3.11.2009

Happy Pictures

We all deal with our daily stresses in different ways. Me? When I feel a little blue, I go to my "happy pictures." These are the pictures of my kids that I look at and can't help but smile. Hope they make you happy, too.

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Chipmunk riding the slide. I love the look of glee on his face. I can almost hear his little voice yelling out, "EEEEEEEE! (Wheeee!)."

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Ah, Sibling love. Bear is, as usual, overly loving. Chipmunk just looks like his eyes are going to pop out.

And the oldie, but goody, "happy pictures"...

Riding the Swing

Bear at 6 months, riding the swing...oh so very chubby.

Airborne

Bear at about 18 months, up against the blue sky.

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Instant love. Siblings, day 1.

Hanging Around

Carefree and happy...

Makes my heart melt every time I look at them...

3.07.2009

Minus 18 inches

Well, I finally did it.

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Minus 18 inches later...(and donated for a good cause)

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Phew. I should of gotten it cut sooner.

3.04.2009

Needful Quiet

Early afternoon and all is still.
I dare not disturb the peace.
My prayer asks for steadiness, for safety, for ease of mind.
I hesitate to move. My eyes are at watch.
My heart is saddened and full of worry, but it must not be seen.
Instead I revel in the silence of our needful quiet.

2.27.2009

Mommy Brain

Sometimes I feel like I lose out on a lot of intellectual stimulation being a stay at home mom. I mean, seriously, playing blocks and tickling kids doesn't amount to a whole lot of smarts. The fact that I can rattle off the tv schedule for PBS in the morning is not something that I am proud of, nor the fact that the majority of my education these days is confined to learning bits of Spanish and Mandarin from Nickelodeon.

I like learning. I love the fact that you can open a book and learn something new each time. I love libraries and bookstores and places of education. I love that the internet is brimming over with knowledge just waiting to be gleaned from. I get excited about the prospect of taking my kids to museums and aquariums. I peruse the adult school catalogs each season looking for classes I could potentially take when the opportunity arises.

Funny thing though...I wasn't a very good student. I usually do better when the learning comes of my own volition rather than on a forced schedule. So in my classes I always averaged out because I couldn't keep up with the school work or mentally handle that timeline on my syllabi. So time was never my thing, but in all honesty, I still have most of my college textbooks, and I still use them. I like to read them every once in a while for no other reason than the information fascinates me. Yup, kind of nerdy, huh?

Perhaps that's why I liked teaching. It was an opportunity to always learn, to find new things to pass on to my students. It was an opportunity to study up on teaching theories and child development. It gave me an excuse to read odd books just to have a wealth of knowledge to entertain my students.

So that explains my need to read half of the parenting books in existence when I found out we were expecting the first time around. It also explains why I reread some of the more pertinent ones the second time around. There's also the horrendous pile of books by my bedside and the hundreds of feeds flying into my Google Reader each day. It makes me feel like I'm not letting my brain turn to mush as I pretend I have no idea how to put together that 5-piece puzzle my daughter wants me to help her with.

Then again, I do love that look of accomplishment on Bear's face after she figures out that puzzle, and I'll take that over being smart any day.

2.20.2009

Clean Up Time

Bear, it's time to clean up! Pick up your toys off the floor!

Okaaaaaay, mommy!


I guess I should have been more specific.

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Oh well, at least she did pick her toys off the floor. Although I guess now I have to clean off the couch.

2.12.2009

One Year Ago Today...

Matt with his son

One year ago today...Happy Birthday, Chipmunk!

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...And thanks for sharing your birthday with your son, Matt...Happy birthday to you, too!

2.09.2009

It's a first!

First birthday, that is.

Our little Bubba (er...Chipmunk) is turning one this week...So of course, being that he's half-Korean, he got his very own celebration of life.

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Here he is all decked out in Korean garb taking part in his dohl jabi. He picked up a pencil and proceeded to stir the rice with it. Apparently that means something really good...(Remember what Bear picked up?)



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Besides the cute kids in Korean clothes, I think this was one of the highlights...

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Yum! Gotta love that cheesecake.

One already. Wow.

2.06.2009

Stay Tuned

For some reason we've been utterly busy, but not with anything I'd consider bloggable. So stay tuned...

Meanwhile here's a little pic that I'll leave you with...

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Gotta love that silly smile...

1.27.2009

Those Four Dreaded Words

Lately there have been four dreaded words in our home..."I Doing Nothing Mommy!" Usually when those four words are used, it means Bear is up to no good.

"I doing nothing, Mommy!" She says as she swipes at her brother's shirt. I later find ketchup up and down Chipmunk's sleeve.

"I doing nothing, Mommy!" She calls from her room where I later find she's taken all of her clothes out from her bottom two drawers.

"I doing nothing, Mommy!" She answers after I question her about the food she's dropping on the floor.

"I doing nothing, Mommy!" She yells preventatively before I find her playing with things I've already asked her to stay away from.

"I doing nothing, Mommy!" She cries out to mask her brother's complaints as he's crawling away from her now wearing several layers of hats.

"I doing nothing, Mommy" She exclaims after I hear a loud crash and a boom.

"I yuv you, Mommy" She says afterwards, hoping that I won't notice a thing.

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1.18.2009

Daddy, Buy this!

Going to Costco is not just a shopping trip, it's a family outing for us. Two kids can sit in the cart comfortably, partake of yummy samples and watch as mom and dad ponder whether it's worth buying 300 diapers at a time. Bear enjoys the ride and has happy thoughts of hot dogs. Chipmunk loves the ride as long as his sister is sitting there next to him, sharing her hot dog.

Today, I parked the cart and stepped a couple of feet away when I heard, "Ooooh, wow! Daddy! Daddy! Come buy this! Buy this!"

Matt was a little confused and said, "What?! Do you know what this is?"

Bear smiled, nodded and said, "A Drum box! Buy the Drum box!"

Apparently I parked the cart next to a large pile of Guitar Hero:World Tour boxes for the Wii.

So we bought it...just kidding, we didn't. But that sure would have been a fun ending to this story. Oh well.

1.11.2009

Paint, Squish, Glue, Smile

Art.

That's what Bear told me she wanted to do for her birthday party. So a little research led us to the Art Zone. After a brief visit to see what they had to offer, we were hooked. Plus, we couldn't get Bear to leave the place...so it was decided...

Seriously, clay, some goopy stuff, easels stocked with paint, projects with glue and beads, a play area with dress up clothes, paint that you can spray on fake windows and then squeegee, and a mud and water room for...yup, playing with mud and water. It's one of those places you walk in and think, "man, I wish I was a kid again."

Add some pizza, spam musubi and a chocolate cake, invite some friends from play group, and you've got a party!

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She was so tired afterwards, she passed out on our couch...hopefully dreaming about fun, art-y things.

Now on to plan Chipmunk's dohl.

1.07.2009

Retaliation

I still worry that our assertive, outgoing Bear will overshadow her brother, but lately I have been seeing signs of Chipmunk standing his ground. He has a few techniques:

1) Diplomacy - First he uses his words...well, his word (singular). Not so surprisingly, with a sister always telling him "no," Chipmunk has learned to reply back with "no." (Bear: No Baby, that's mine! - Chipmunk: (babble) No! )

2) Bartering - I've often seen him offering up whatever toy he has at the moment to his sister, perhaps in hope that she'll trade in return.

3) Thievery - After bartering fails, he resorts to stealing. He waits and watches, and the moment Bear puts down the desired toy, he pounces. Sometimes Bear looks up and finds her toy gone not even noticing Chipmunk swept by and stole it. Of course, Bear then grabs the toy back and then hides it behind the couch or behind a closed door even quicker.

4) Take Down - When diplomacy, bartering and thievery has failed, Chipmunk then retaliates with physical force. I've witnessed a few times our 22-pound 10 month old crawl up to his 30-pound sister, grab her around the waist and then pull her backward to the floor...thud. After that, he purposely crawls over her to hold her down so that he can reach the toy once again.

I'm curious to see how this will pan out in their future as siblings.

1.03.2009

Returning to Normal Land

With travel and illnesses, it's been slow trying to get back to what we call "normal" in our home. Bear is finally remembering to use her "please" and her "thank you" without our prompting. She's also remembering what it's like to actually take afternoon naps. Chipmunk who has been super-clingy and seems to have developed some kind of super-baby-anxiety is starting to regain his independence. Once his fever broke, he still wasn't acting like his usual happy self, but slowly, day by day, he's starting to regain his appetite for food and for life. And naps? Oh yes, the naps are getting back on track, too.

It's kind of funny though how hard you have to work just to adjust everyone back to a normal schedule, but it's definitely necessary for sanity.

Speaking of normal, here's a funny Bear story...

Mommy, look I'm a pirate!

So she runs up to me like this, hat over one eye and says, "Look, Mommy! I'm a pirate! Arrrrrrrr!" Then she proceeded to "Arrrrr!" all over the livingroom.

Now that's normal for our home.